101 Growing Up Issues: Teenage Girl Problems And Their Solutions
No one said growing up was easy. In fact, it can be downright tough at times! If you’re a teenage girl, you might be dealing with all sorts of issues, from friends and school to boys and body image. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, but there are ways to cope. This article delves into some of the main issues that girls face when growing up and offers advice on how to deal with them.
What are the common issues faced by girls as they grow up?
There are a number of common issues faced by girls as they grow up. Many of these issues stem from the fact that girls are often seen as being weaker and less capable than boys. This can lead to girls feeling like they have to prove themselves constantly, which can be exhausting. Additionally, girls often face pressure to conform to society’s expectations of how they should look and behave. This can lead to a lot of self-doubt and insecurity.
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To put it simply, some of the most common growing up issues teenage girls face include:
- Body image and self-esteem issues
- Pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations
- Relationship issues
- Academic and career pressure
- Peer Pressure and Bullying
- Boys and Dating
Teenage struggles and solutions
Every teenager faces struggles at some point during their teenage years. While these struggles may seem insurmountable at times, there are solutions to help get through them.
We’ll talk about things like body image issues, peer pressure, and more. If you’re struggling with any of these issues, know that you’re not alone. And there are ways to make it through.
Here are some common teenage girl struggles, along with some tips on how to deal:
1. Friend drama
Friends can be a great source of stress for teenage girls. Whether it’s fighting with your best friend or being left out of the cool group, friendship can be hard in high school. You may have friends who are popular and seem to get all the attention, or you may feel like you don’t fit in with any group of friends.
The best solution is to find a group of friends who accept you for who you are and make you feel good about yourself. But, if you feel that’s a lot to ask and you can’t change your friends, then try to stay levelheaded for your own peace of mind. And communicate with your friends. Tell them why their behaviour is getting on your nerves. Let your friend know how you feel. [PS: Do it nicely though]. For those awkward moments when things get too heated up, take a break from the situation and come back when you’re both calm and willing to sort things out.
With the friend drama comes the dreaded peer pressure. When you feel the need to conform to what your friends are doing in order to fit in. Please, don’t. This can often lead to you engaging in risky behaviors, such as drinking or drug use. So, use your senses, don’t fall into the trap of toxic peer pressure and do things that are good for you.
2. School stress
From exams to peer pressure, there’s a lot that can stress you out in school. Make sure you’re staying on top of your work and creating a study schedule that works for you. A schedule that works for you! Something that you can do and not something you think in your head you’ll be able to do. In other words, be realistic with your schedule.
Also, don’t be afraid to ask for help from teachers or parents when you’re struggling. Like literally. ASK FOR HELP. Don’t shut yourself up. Talk to people around you. Stop feeling that you’ll be judged for who you are, and even if others judge you, so what? Their judgement has nothing to do with you. That’s how they look at the world. Their opinions define them, not you. If you can, please find a bunch of people you can trust. Go out and make friends. Vibe with your tribe and chill a little bit more in life 🙂
3. Boys and dating
Boys can be confusing, and dating can be even more so. You may be interested in a boy who doesn’t seem to notice you or you may be worried about being rejected by the boy you like. The best solution is to be confident in yourself and remember that there is someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are. And if this super confidence sounds too much to you then, just do me one favour: take your time and don’t rush into anything you’re not ready for. Did I say communication is the key when it comes to boys? Yes, you can try this out as well.
WARNING: Many girls feel the need to have a boyfriend and often put themselves in compromising situations in order to get one. This can often lead to heartbreak, disappointment and regret in life. Please understand it’s okay to be single. You don’t have to make the same mistake your friend did and regretted later. The right one will come. Don’t rush into things because everyone is doing it. Don’t be a copycat. Do what feels right to you.
4. Body Image
Body image is a big issue for girls, as they are constantly bombarded with images of what society says is the “perfect” body type. This can lead to eating disorders, body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), and low self-esteem. You might start to compare yourself to these unrealistic standards and feel like you’re not good enough. You may feel like you need to lose weight or you may be unhappy with some aspect of your appearance.
Wait a minute, let me elaborate on this one a little more.
Puberty has recently hit you or maybe it has been a couple of years. Still, you need to compassionately understand that puberty is a time of physical changes. Girls start to develop breasts, grow taller, and get their first period. These changes can be confusing and sometimes scary. But remember, every girl goes through it!
Mothers: You can help your daughter by talking to her about what to expect and helping her find resources for more information. You might also want to consider taking her to a doctor or a gynaecologist so she can ask questions and get any needed medical care.
Daughters: Go and ask your mothers. What’s on your mind? what’s bothering you? and if she doesn’t have answers, tell her to take you to a doctor. Ask those questions.
Coming back to body image. The changes that come with puberty can be tough for girls to accept. You may feel self-conscious about your body and worry about how it looks to others. This is normal! But it’s important for you to remember that everyone is different and that there is no such thing as a perfect body. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You have to love and accept yourself for just the way you are: Beautiful, I mean.
The road ahead
As you enter adolescence, you face a number of challenges. Some of these are physical, like the changes that come with puberty. Others are psychological, like figuring out who you are and where you fit in. The good news is that you are resilient. Girls are resilient. With the proper support, you can overcome any obstacle.
Keep these few things in mind:
First, it’s important to accept that everyone is different and that there is no one “perfect” way to look or act. Second, focus on your own happiness, not what other people think of you. Lastly, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you’re feeling overwhelmed or lost.
Remember, the teenage years are just a phase and you’ll get through them!
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