How Arun Singh’s Rebellion Empowered Shilpi to Save 22,000 Girls from Child Marriage in Seemanchal
In a society where girls’ voices were stifled, Arun Singh, a father of three daughters from Seemanchal, Bihar, stood as a rebel to secure independence for his eldest, Shilpi. His bold first step was enrolling her in a Kathak Dance Academy, igniting a journey that defied tradition and reshaped lives.
Human progress has always been about overcoming darkness with light, honoring those who uplift others. Shilpi’s contributions, recognized by nations like the U.S., Canada, the Netherlands, and the U.K., shine brightly in this context. Her impact is best understood by the girls she saved from being sold into marriage. As poet Dhumil said, “Don’t ask the blacksmith about iron’s taste—ask the horse with the rein in its mouth.”
Born 41 years ago in Katihar’s Emergency Colony, Shilpi grew up in a wealthy family. Her grandfather, Vaidyanath Singh, a prominent railway contractor, expected his son Arun to pursue engineering or law. But Arun, influenced by the Jaiprakash movement, chose social reform over convention. The plight of girls in his community, married off post-tenth grade to secure “good matches,” troubled him deeply. Determined to break this cycle, Arun enrolled Shilpi in Kathak classes, sparking outrage among family and neighbors. This wasn’t just a defiance of tradition but a catalyst for suppressed dreams.
The backlash was fierce. Shilpi’s grandfather scorned Arun’s choices, warning that society would mock a “drummer father and dancer daughter.” Yet Arun stood firm, urging young Shilpi to “strengthen herself like a soldier.” At six, she performed Kathak at Patna’s Kalidas Rangalaya, gaining unshakable confidence. Arun ensured she faced societal challenges early, involving her in his nonprofit, Bhumika Vihar, founded in 1996. He even woke her at 1:30 a.m. to learn computer skills during Katihar’s erratic electricity hours, preparing her for a larger mission.
When Arun died of kidney disease in 2013, 29-year-old Shilpi shouldered Bhumika Vihar, her cancer-stricken mother, and teenage sister. With extraordinary resolve, she expanded her father’s work. Through Durga Jatha and Balika Panchayat, she has saved over 22,000 girls from child marriage. In 2017, she faced violent resistance in Sameli village to stop an underage marriage, rescuing a girl despite threats from the girl’s mother. Today, thousands of Seemanchal girls, inspired by Shilpi, attend school and access government schemes through Bhumika Vihar.
Shilpi now leads Digiplay Pathshala, teaching STEM to over 1,000 underprivileged children from castes like Musahar and Paswan. Since 2009, she has earned fellowships and honors from global nations. Once shunned, she is now invited with respect by her community. A mother to seven-year-old Advik, Shilpi declares at every gathering, “I salute every father who fights for his daughters.” Her story is a testament to a father’s vision and a daughter’s courage to light up the darkest corners.
