Why older women can’t flaunt their sex appeal?
If you’re a woman over 40 and haven’t experienced the heady rush of feeling sexy, then you’re missing out on something special.
When you’re younger, sex is a bit like a drug: it’s exciting and new, but also stressful and potentially dangerous. When you’re older, though, the highs aren’t quite as high—but they still feel good! And since there’s no real risk involved with traditional sex or other relationships, older women can actually get their fix without having to worry about what other people might think.
It’s hard to deny that feeling attractive is good for your health—and if there’s anything we know about ageing well, it’s that we don’t want to be judged by how we look. Older women are just as likely as younger ones to feel happy about their appearance—and not just in the way that counts: being confident about your body and its ability to carry out its natural functions is an important part of feeling healthy and strong. In fact, studies have shown that those who feel empowered by their bodies live longer than those who don’t.
Let’s talk about sex appeal.
If you’re an older woman, you might be wondering why your sex appeal isn’t as hot as it used to be. Maybe it’s because you’ve been wearing the same old clothes and makeup for so long that they’re starting to look frumpy and boring. Or maybe it’s because you don’t have the energy to put in all the time it takes to look good (or at least put-together). Or maybe it’s because girls in their twenties just seem like they have more fun than girls in their forties do.
Whatever the reason, we can definitely relate—and we want to help! We know what it feels like to try new things with your hair and makeup and how we feel like even trying that makes us look tacky. We know what it feels like to look at ourselves in the mirror and think, “I’m way too old for this shit,” or worse yet, “I just don’t have time.” But being older doesn’t mean being less fun! In fact, there are plenty of ways you can bring some sexy back into your life—and we’re going to talk about it.
It’s a truth universally acknowledged that women get hotter as they age—but that doesn’t mean older women are allowed to flaunt their sexuality. It’s just too risky, right?
The truth is, as you get older, you don’t have to worry about losing your sex appeal. You’ve already got it! But what if I told you there was another way to keep going on your journey toward hotness? One that didn’t involve sacrificing your confidence and self-esteem? One that would allow you to feel more comfortable in your own skin?
It’s called [your name].[Your name]. Yes, you have to do it for yourself. You have to know if you want to feel sexy at 60 or 70 or even at 90, you can do it. You can feel sexy again by allowing yourself to take back control of your body and your sexual health. The moment you make up your mind that you want to feel sexy, then even the most reluctant woman will feel confident and empowered—and maybe even a little bit naughty!
Start by improving your self-image. Here’s what you can do: lose weight, get toned muscles, try new hairstyles and makeup techniques (like fake eyelashes), and wear sexy clothes that show off what you’ve got! And don’t you dare tell yourself that you are too old to do all of this.
If older women really want to feel sexy again, they need to start thinking about themselves as people who are still evolving—as people who have stories worth telling!
Older women are often thought of as being frigid, but studies have proven that many older women have actually lost their ability to orgasm.
This is due to a number of factors: they may be getting older and their hormones may not be as responsive, they may have a medical condition that has affected their sexual function, or they could even have just gotten used to not having an orgasm.
But don’t worry! There are ways you can help yourself or your partner feel more comfortable when it comes to sex. Here are some tips for making sure you’re providing the best experience possible for your partner:
- Don’t rush things. If your partner is feeling nervous, don’t make them feel like they need to perform right away. Take all the time you need to get everything set up and ready before starting anything sexual. This will help them feel more comfortable and allow for more intimate exploration later on.
- Be patient with yourself too! You might want things to happen quickly, but if you’re trying something, make sure that you give yourself time before moving forward so that both of you know what works best for each other’s bodies!
- To have a healthy and satisfying sex life, talk to your partner about how they like to be touched, kissed, preferred position, penetrated, and so on. Make her feel at ease and confident in engaging in sexual activities at this age.
- Most importantly, better sexual well-being for older women can be ensured by changing society’s attitude toward ageing and accepting and acknowledging their sexual expression.
Beliefs we hold about old age and sex appeal
1. Older women aren’t as sexually appealing as they used to be.
That’s because the pleasure centre in their brain is no longer as active as it was when they were younger. That’s not to say that older women don’t feel sexy or that they don’t enjoy sex. In fact, many of them do—but they have less of an interest in showing off their bodies because they’re more focused on enjoying themselves.
2. Older women can’t flaunt their sex appeal because they’ve already had it, and it’s not what they want anymore.
Sex appeal is a feeling that comes from being desired by others. Because older women have already had this experience, there’s not much left for them to feel sexy about. This is partly true.
The reason younger women are able to feel sexy is that they’re still looking for someone to desire. They haven’t yet grown out of the need for affection and attention from others, which is something older women often do not experience unless their partners keep the magic alive.
In addition, why can’t we feel desired about ourselves regardless of what the outside world says? Why do we have to wait to feel that way? It’s challenging, but not impossible. Women must maintain the conviction that their sex appeal, self-worth, and confidence are not affected by their age, just as it is crucial for young girls to feel worthy of who they are and not base that belief just on appearance.
3. Women can’t flaunt their sex appeal because they don’t feel like they have any.
There are many elements that contribute to how we appear, but one that we frequently hold as true is that older women are no longer interested in enjoying their bodies. Partially true and partially untrue. Women’s expectations and physical changes vary greatly from one another. Some people’s desires are suppressed by bodily changes, whereas for others, they remain unaffected.
When you’re young, you think about how your body looks and what it can do for you, but as you age, things change. Your body stops doing what it used to do well and starts doing other things better—and sometimes not so well. You follow what you have been told that desires disappear with age.
If you really want to feel sexy again, you need to start thinking about yourself as someone who is still evolving—as someone who has stories worth telling!
Get rid of the stress, shame, and guilt associated with ageing. As you get older, live life to the fullest rather than putting it on hold.